&& are you really gay?? //
&& are you really gay?? //
Alright, I have known this guy named Brian for like ever. We have gotten really close this year, and I started liking him --alot. Everyone targeted us as a couple, and we didnt do anything about it.. We were never apart, and it just seemed "perfect".. Well.. about a month after all the rumors and such, he told me that he was gay!! and he was being serious.. I totally FREAKED out at first.. but now, almost 4 months later, everything is fine, and we are closer than ever. But.. i still have some lingering feelings for him.. even though i KNOW he is gay!! is that odd!??
any advice??
Peacocks
Ben Sherman
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Post a CommentNo..its not weird. Gay guy friends are the best. So whatever you do don't give up the friendship. But get use to being attracted to him. And don't make a move..just enjoy the sexual tension with someone you can trust not to make a move.
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yeah, i get what you mean.. its just, he's always putting his arm around me and etc.. idk.. its kinda hard.. but, thanks for the advice.
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Great advice Ima. Continue being his friend, without any expectations.
hi all of you people im new I dont talk much
i agree with Ima and DC. i have lots of gay friends and sometimes they flirt like crazy too. but its cos they know that neither will take it a step further. its just crazy, friendly fun.
agree with Ima, very good advice. I personally have lots of gay friends, they love to flirt with girls, but i guess for them it's not really flirt, because they think they are girls too (well some of them), so they get a little more comfortable with holding your hands, or any physical actions. just keep the good friendship with him, i m sure he's awsome in giving out fashion advices.
Agreed! Don't give up a friendship with this man.. although there are lingering feelings.. just wait for them to subside. If they start getting stronger and stronger - you might have to vocalize your feelings and let him know that you won't be able to continue the friendship.
It's definitely okay to flirt with your gay best friend.. but, only if that is all that you're doing.. flirting.
You don't have to stop being friends but don't let these feelings continue to grow because you will get hurt in the long run. Just think of it as its not meant to be. The right guy is out there and he's definetly straight LOL!
I think this happens a lot. Look at 'Will & Grace'! But I agree with everyone; don't give up the friendship, the feelings will calm down (probably) and you'll most likely end up with the most amazing friendship. Gay guys make great best friends!
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