Lately my friends haven't been inviting me anywhere. I have been left out in every which way & i am getting really tired of it. I just want to feel like i belong, but i keep getting this feeling like they don't want me. Whenever it is someones birthday and there is going to be a party, they never tell me. I usually find out by seeing pictures posted on the Internet, (face-book). They talk to me at lunch, but they never wait for me, they wait for each other, but leave me to walk there all by myself. I always go out of my way to be nice and listen when they speak, but when i talk, it feels like no one is listening. I don't like not being heard because it makes me feel small.
I never let my sad feelings show when i am upset at them for changing their plans at the last minute when they decide that they would rather not hang out with me on a Saturday night. I take initiative and make own plans with them, but then they never include me in anything.
What did i do?
Am i not being a good friend?
Is it me?
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Sorry, they don't appreciate you. It's their loss. Find some friends who treat you with respect cause the ones who have now obviously don't. Limit your contact with them as much as possible, from now on.
1they are not ur friends, plain and simple.
2start looking for a new group, people who will like you for who u r, who appreciate ur effort and who have some etiquette =|
That sounds like something I go through sometimes. I just try to remember what my high school friend Anna tells me: most ppl in college are NOT your friends. And it's so true. It can really hurt when the people in your dorm or whatever don't include you, and I've been sad about it plenty of times. But there are some wonderful friends that I have from high school AND college that would never want to hurt me. It doesn't seem like you're in college from the information you provided but it still holds true. There must be someone in your life who is always there for you. if you have just that one person, you'll be okay. those girls are not your friends. start looking to the people who always got your back and don't let those girls rain on your parade! =)
3I feel for you, because girls can be real b*tches, especially when they are young. Stop making plans with them. Be friendly and civil when you see them at school. Start making new friends, ones who prioritize you as a person, because I don't think these girls are your true friends. If they really cared about you and were upset about something, they would confront you about it instead of purposely excluding you like that. Spread your wings and meet some new friends that would never do this to you. When you see them, act the same as you did, like I said, friendly and civil. Once they realize that you don't need them anymore they might realize what aholes they are. Then again, maybe not, why waste your time worrying about it when there are so many much cooler people to spend time with.
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