Update on Approaching Topic

Jan 10, 2009 - Okay, I was talking with my boyfriend and the topic about finding a place to live came up and he was like "I'm trying to find a 4 bedroom house for all 4 of us to live with, you know name, name, her name, and me." Some more information about the situation is that for the school, you are doing rotations and these people he happens to be wanting to live with he will also be working with, and I'm not moving there because I'm on rotation somewhere else. And so I tried my best at sounding calm but my first words were in a joking tone "Don't you think you might get sick of living with people you will work with" and he immediately replied "Why, I don't see the problem with it, what are you getting at, why wouldn't I live with them" like the tone of his voice was that he was a little angry/irritated about my question - I didn't want to immediately say what I had felt insecure about, maybe that is where I wasn't good , but I was gauging his reaction I guess. - 2 Comments

Will this get any better?

Aug 11, 2008 - Last year, I found out my husband of 14 years was having an affair with a client. The affair coincided with a job change, where he quit a well-paying sales job to work solely in a business that he had started. In an ethically questionable business move, on his urging, the client moved her account to his personal business well before he quit the other sales job. - 7 Comments