Grad School or Work?

Oct 16, 2009 - Hi Sugars, I'm 22 y.o. college grad with a degree in engineering. Upon graduation I was offered a spot in a research group at my university, which at the time seems like a good idea. - 6 Comments

Toxic Best Friend?

Mar 05, 2010 - I've been very close to my best friend since our freshman year of college, in fact we were roommates all four years. We traveled together, had the same group of friends, and spent a lot of time together. After we returned from our post-graduation trip, she even lived with my parents and I while we looked for jobs (at no expense, obviously). - 1 Comment

he seems hung up on his ex

Feb 10, 2010 - I've been with my boyfriend for a little over two years.  We met while I was in college about 4 hours away from my hometown, and after I graduated he moved home with me.  We have our own apartment together, he's enrolled in grad school down here, and we're very close with each other's family/friends. - 4 Comments

Needy?

Feb 02, 2010 - Hello. I hope you guys are able to provide me with some advice. Okay so I've been with my boyfriend for over 4 years now and he's actually really good. - 5 Comments

Have you ever had a sugar daddy?

Jan 29, 2010 - I've always joked about this idea w/ my girlfriends, but recently it's become as real as ever. Not that I've acted upon it (I have a long-term boyfriend), but I was offered.. A relative of a friend apparently wants to pay for my past student loans and grad school, if I become his girlfriend. - 24 Comments

Jealous and mistrustful...for NO REASON.

Jan 19, 2010 - I am a 25-year-old woman who has fallen in love for the first REAL time in my life.  I have been in two other serious relationships, but always questioned if I was really in love, and have found that I never was (as I suspected).  The problem is, both of those boyfriends cheated on me, and had general bad behavior. - 4 Comments

My LDR BF is clueless...

Dec 16, 2009 - The story is a romantic one.  I knew him since I was 15...we got to meet up this summer when I returned home for a break from school, and he admitted he was enamoured with me for years.  Sparks flew...fast forward a month later and I'm off 1,000 miles away to start the new school semester.  I was hesitant about starting another LDR after my last one didn't work out.  He said he couldn't be in limbo...I didn't want to lose him...my heart fought my head and won and decided YES...this is going to be great.  He is nothing like my last bf and I made the mistake of trying to compare the two when I was trying to think rationally about my decision.  Well, after the cutesy letters and mix tapes and such...the problems have arisen. I realize he may have a drinking problem.  Sober he is a compassionate and kind soul...when he drinks he is a different person.  He started a fight with me a couple of weeks ago when he saw my ex out at a bar...claming- "You still like that guy!" blah blah...long and short of it...he said some really hurtful things and apologized the next morning saying, "he doesn't even feel that way..."  I decided it was just a bad night and I explained I will not tolerate drunk phone calls like that.  Alcohol has ruined much of my life and many relationships....and I am currently making a life transition where alcohol just doesn't have a role in my way of living. - 8 Comments