My boyfriend and i love each other dearly, we are great friends and i could not ask for too much more except in one area. i feel like sexually we are just not there. we have been together for over a year and we just never seemed to have had that go- at- each- other ,all- the- time , want- you -the -minute- i -see- you or lay- next- to- you. we do have sex but its not out of this world. what could be wrong here? m i worried for nothing?
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Maybe you two just don't really click in the bedroom. That's only a big deal if it's really important to you that you do. Only you can decide that.
1You have to decide if you can live like this the rest of your life. Have you ever had that crazy feeling about anyone else, or has your sex drive always been low? If you're on the pill, that may be the problem as I've noticed for myself that it totally kills my sex drive.
2Thanx but i am always horny. i guess i cant find positions that really work. eg. woman on top does nothing and i feel useless.i know i dont have a low sex drive. maybe i am not physically attractive enough i tend to think at times.is that possible? and why do i never orgasm?
3COMMUNICATION!!! I only orgasm with oral sex. Do you have oral sex with him? Do you tell him what makes you feel good...or do you show him what you like? Like the others said, I too am on the pill and I have to "make" myself have sex. Exercising helps too. TALK TO HIM! Is he feeling the same way? Dont give up!
4Maybe you and him are supposed to be just friends? But dont give up yet. Find out what his fantasies are. Is he very sexually adventurous? Try some new things with each other. Have you EVER felt like that? Even in the beginning?
"Don't fall for someone who's not willing to catch you"
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