DearSugar,
I was out with some coworkers last week on a Thursday night. We were all drinking and having a fabulous time when one of my female co workers approached me and said something really weird. She said, "You always look so cute at work," I thought she was giving me a complement but than she continued, "and I know you know it. You know you're cute, you act like you know it, and you flaunt it." I didn't know what to say but it was really awkward. Now I don't know how to treat her at work and feel like she is envious of my body and confidence. Should I just ignore her all together or let her know I didn't like what she said to me?
Cute Carla
Tripp
Without knowing either of you, it's hard to say.
You are either arrogant and annoying about it.
Or, she's jealous.
It's impossible to tell without knowing either of you.
But you need to be the bigger person and be pleasant to her because you have a work relationship. I wouldn't try to escalate this any further.
1You posted this in the wrong place sweetie if you were trying to ask Dear. If you want to ask her, then you have to click on Dear at the top and then click on the subtitle Ask Question.
But my two cents is that you guys were drinking, so she probably said something she wouldn't have normally said sober. Not to say that isn't how she feels or that it wasn't exaggerated, but overall I wouldn't worry about it or say anything more about it. Especially since this is your work place. Just do you
2Well you were all drinking....drinking always brings out the truth in people.....
3Ignore her. Why waste your time on someone like that?
4a drunk person speaks a sober person's mind. Whether you're arrogant doesn't matter. She probably feels stupid for saying it but that wasn't a compliment. She's got issues with you. Watch out; Good luck
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