I still think that's technically virginal. lol, you're such a rule bender.

definitely sounds like you're still a virgin. having the hymen intact doesn't really mean anything because it can be broken by something like a tampon or certain sports (like horseback riding?). some people consider oral sex to be sex, but i certainly don't. i'd say you're still a virgin until you've been actually penetrated.

I think you're still a virgin
Oral sex is totally different from regular intercourse; I don't really see how it can be equated with intercourse.

The only possible thing other than intercourse that I think makes one a non-virgin is anal, but why would someone do anal before regular? >_<</p> 3

u r stil a virgin gurlie
dnt wori jst dont do sumthn u wud regret later on (DONT TRUST A BOY)!

Your a virgin. You can only lose it with sexual intercourse, meaning: penis in the vagina. Wow sorry for being so blunt!!!Plus, hymens break easily. Like if fall really hard and funny, or tampons. At least to my knowlege!

In my opinion, you're still a virgin. But if you're uncomfortable with the things you've already done, then maybe you should stop for a while. Clearly you're questioning things, which is great, but in my experience, all that questioning usually means you should back off.

Don't use religion as a cruch.. Do what makes you happy with yourself.. If you are okay with what is going on then leave it be...

I thinking waiting till marriage is setting you up for a huge disappointment...

I personally waited to lose my virginity till I was 22 becasue I wanted to be in Love with the person i lost it to.. Not because someone else dictated my beliefs..

Ah well do what you want..

some christians have sex and later regret it. they ask God for forgiveness and if you believe in the same non-denominational God that they do, God forgives them. they consider themselves 'pure' again, and don't worry about it anymore.

me personally, i'd consider you a virgin. you fooled around, nothing more, nothing less.

i agree with everyone else here. you're still a virgin even though you've been fooling around. basically you still will be until you've been vaginally penetrated.

I think virginity is a state of mind. Losing mine was kind of a big deal, but nothing compared to when I had sex with the guy I was completely in love with.
-Bug

You are technically a virgin but what you're doing is considered sex. That's why it's called oral sex. I definitely wouldn't say continue what you're doing because if you are a Christian, sex counts (any sex.) Don't discouraged though, just pray about it and try to do the right thing.

I would say you are still a virgin. Don't go all the way until you're ready! And when you do, make sure you're protected

by the way, i remember being taught that ANY genital contact meant sex.

Oh for the love of God.

You're a virgin. You havent had sex. End of story.

You've had foreplay type action happening from what you say - you're safe.

BUT

If we're looking at the bigger picture - most people consider any kind of genital action as a sex act and lump it into the same category. Its all in the eye of the beholder.

*Sidenote to add: You really dont have to do the Im Christian/But I dont hate Gays argument love. Its kinda like the whole "But I have a Black friend" - thing. You're Christian, shouldnt have to shout out any disclaimers about it. If people mistake you for other types of christians and you dont fit the bill, then thats THEIR issue - not yours.