there is this guy I like but he doesn't live near me.I'm not interested in anyone that lives near me.I'm not sure how he feels,he seems interested but then sometimes he doesn't.I'm too chicken to say anything myself,although I've come close to blurting it out before.I'm so afraid that if I say something he will reject me or I will scare him and weird him out.he is interested in getting to know my friends,talks to me for hours and hours,wants my attention and we have a lot in common.Part of me thinks 'what do I have to lose by telling him since he doesn't live close' and the other part says 'don't say anything and don't take the risk you'll look like a fool'.Sometimes I think 'why does he even like me' or 'does he just like my attention with no intentions of making something of it'.I really don't know what to do,I really don't have any girlfriends that I could talk to about this.
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You can try it. But I personally would NEVER do it again.
1Works for some, not for all. Trust is a lot. If you can't trust 100%, it won't work.
2You're right GScott. But for me it has nothing to do with trust. Most men can't be trusted living in the same home from what I hear.
and I'm single and available to a man
who wants to touch me daily. 
That's one of my love languages, the
other is acts of service... can't be helped, it's ingrained.
3I mean, if I have a companion... I expect companionship. Phone conversations and email just don't cut it for me. A man to touch me and having a partner to do daily, routine things with is the whole point to me. Otherwise he's a LD friend
Until he asks you to be his gf (LD in this case), there's NOTHING you should be worried/concerned about. If he's interested in you more than just LD buddy, he'd let you know. No mixed signal.
I had an online LD bf before too, we met when he came to town and he kept contacting me when he's back at his town, it didn't work out in the end.
My point is, you'll KNOW when he wants you to be his gf, and until then, you shouldn't even worry about getting involved with the guy. Just carry on be his friend, have LD fun with him. Unless you're the type that's comfortable making the first move. If you are that type, go for it, tell him what you feel, and if you're rejected, at least..it's not like he lives nearby
You win some, you lose some.
4Hmm, true true. As Luisa once said, I'd say go into this optimistically cautious.
5if you've nothing to lose, then why don't you try it ?
a guy who is interested is there for you ... that saves you the work.
he could be the one.
trust is not an isssue .. if you are trustworthy, then he will be too.
it's something that is given, if you do the same.
explore it ... be prepared ...
don't miss out on a good opportunity, because of a hurdle ...
good luck !
6Give it a chance. Anything is possible.
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