Hey Everyone,
I just want to thank everyone for the advice that they gave me. I've been spending alot of time with the neighbor lately LOL, I went over on friday and we hung out with some of his friends, Saturday night we just hung out and watched movies until all hours. . . Sunday he was out with friends but called me and we talked for 45min. . . and we've been watching alot of TV together. . LOL
You guys tell me what you think - On Friday night we slept in the same bed together (no sex) but we made out [sex wasn't an option if you catch my drift] . Saturday night we just laid on the couch and kissed for the better part of the night. But I've been over the last few nights and he like won't even touch my hand but he is the one that calls and invites me over to watch a show or to talk etc. I'm thinking he's just super shy. . . and it's taking him sometime to make a move when were both sober(lol). I think that a couple of drinks gives everyone a little courage and now were getting to slowly know each other out side of those once or twice a week party circumstances. . . Which I do like because I don't want it to be just a drunk and stumble every saturday night I actually really enjoy his company. So what do you guys think?
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I say you're on the right track, and more power to him for not pushing you and trying to move too quickly. Maybe he doesn't want to make you uncomfortable. He wouldn't invite you over if he didn't like you.
1He probably does enjoy your company too, but you sound like you want something more. Spend more sober time with him so he can get used to having you around, and then maybe he won't be so shy.
2Besides, getting to know each other isn't all about being physical. If he invites you over and you guys spend hours just talking, I'd think that's great.
I'm happy that you guys are getting even closer. How about going out sometimes? Dinner outside, going out to see the movies or walk around the park sounds like an awesome option for your dates!
Hmm...as for not touching your hand at that time, that's a little bit odd, he may be super shy guy too, my ex-bf (whom I'm still friends with) was a little bit like that. He took his time and wanted to get to know me even better before sleeping together. When he refused to make any physical contact, it usually was because he tried to "refrain" himself
So yep. I'm glad that he's still taking initiatives in dating you, getting you to meet his friends (so he's not keeping you a secret). He seems pretty cool to me. I hope you guys enjoy your time together
3He's so going to be your new boyfriend!!!! Definitely have sex when you're not sloppy drunk; don't want to forget a thing; surely some tension is building. You better keep us posted!!
4I agree stop with the drinking which can impair your feelings, thoughts etc... I am glad to hear you two are hitting it off. Just do not come on to strong because you do not want to push him away. Good luck and girl keep us updated with your soap opera Life.
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