The night I got married my best friend sent me an email telling me he loved me. I got the message in the Bahamas, just checking my mail at an internet cafe, with my new husband a few steps away. I didn't know what to do or say so I didn't say anything, not to my best friend or my husband. I've been confused about it, because I had thought at other times in our relationship that I loved him too. The next time I talked to him after that, he said it wasn't a big deal, he had just been working too much and stayed up too late. So If he wanted to forget about it, I did too. But we haven't been the same since, we're definitely not best friends anymore, but maybe that would've happened anyway. I haven't let it bother me too much, except sometimes when I dream about him, and then I think about him all the next day. It's so confusing. He isn't in my life anymore, so I don't know what it's about, I just want it to stop. So how do I stop dreaming about him??