I have a boyfriend in the military with whom I am very much in love. We've been together for two years, and he's been away pretty much the entire time, but we are fortunate enough to be able to talk to each other every night. Our talks are endless, we barely fight, we're still sexually attracted to each other, and the list goes on. It's wonderful.

Well, recently, I noticed a male friend of mine was getting friendlier with me than usual. He would lean in very close when we talked, share a chair with me when we hung out with other friends (even when there were plenty of open chairs), and so on. I think it might have been because he broke up (again) with his on and off girlfriend of three years, and he just missed the physical attention.

At first, I was very uncomfortable with this, and for many reasons. I had a boyfriend, he recently broke up with his girlfriend, etc. I didn't like him in that way, but I slowly grew more attracted to him as this went on. Don't get me wrong, not once did I ever have any intentions of cheating on my boyfriend, nor do I have any now. However, I still feel guilty about having even the slightest attraction to this guy friend of mine... I know it's natural to be attracted to other people, but what do I do? Why do I feel like this? Could it be because I also miss the attention and I feel like my friend and I are on the same level?