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Can you really be in love with two people at once?

Posted By Anonymous on Feb 22, 2010 at 11:22PM

I have been in a long term relationship with my boyfriend for 4 years.  We were high school sweethearts and we are now in college and have maintained our relationship throughout.  We were always strong until about 8 months ago.  I began to become close with his roommate and I think I may be falling for him too.  I love my boyfriend, no doubt about it, but I have some pretty strong feelings for this other guy too.  My boyfriend is starting to talk about getting engaged and he has asked my mother to see her rings and before I think about what I would say to him when/if he takes a knee, I need help figuring out if what I'm feeling right now with the other person is only superficial or if there are issues in my relationship that I have not yet seen.  Any insight would be lovely. Thank you.