Am I overanalyzing? Reposted.

Anonymous / November 22, 2009 2:52 pm

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Here's the deal. I met this guy... well kinda anyway, I met him online, and we've been talking almost every day. I mean I haven’t IM-ed this much since I was in high school. So anyway, everything was going great, (and great for me is not getting pissed off and never talking to a guy again 'cause he said something stupid) we would always talk for at least an hour and he would say we should meet. He’s seen me before, on the site we met on, and my MySpace, (when we couldn’t IM for whatever reason, we would send notes to each other on there) he had no problem with my looks, he would always call me “cute or beautiful” (his words not mine) and say that he couldn’t wait to meet me in person. So after two weeks, he asked me for my phone number, and I was a little bit hesitant about giving it to him ‘cause online dating always squigd me out a little, you know? So after a couple of days I gave in, and he called me, so now he wasn’t just some guy online, now he’s a hottie with a voice and a face (and boy is he a hottie, I mean MY GOD!!!) So after another week of talking and chatting, he calls me last week and asked can he come up and see me the next day and I said yes.

The day went great, nothing but good signs the first thing he did when he saw me was hug me, we picked out a movie to watch, which we didn’t cause we were talking the whole time, he hinted that he wanted to go outside ‘cause “it’s really nice out” so I suggested we go for a walk and we did. We got a beer and a seat at this little shop outside and talked some more, he even said something totally embarrassing and was like “why did I just say that,” and he said that he wanted to introduce me to his daughter. His body language was nothing but good. We walked back to my house and I made a late lunch and we ate and talked some more (I knew we had a lot in common from all the IM-ing) but while I was in the kitchen he kissed me, just a little sweet kiss, but when he was getting ready to leave he pulled me to him and kissed me again, and this time boy what a kiss! *lol* But while he was pulling away he looked me in the eyes, smiled and said “I think this is going to be a great summer.”

He told me he would call me after he got off work that night. But he didn’t. I’ve even sent him two notes on MySpace and he hasn’t sent anything back. It’s been a week and nothing. My best friend told me he was a asshole and that I should just forget about him, and I know I should, but I just don’t know what went so wrong in the first place, for him not to want to contact me. I’ve read ‘He's Just Not that Into You‘ and I seen the movie, I don’t want to be the Rule, I wanna be the Exception. What should I do? Anyone, everyone help?

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