My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 5 months. He is about 6 yrs older than me which means he also has a lot more experience when sex is concerned, he was also my first EVERYTHING. Our relationship has had its ups and downs but we've been able to work through them and we're happy now. The only issue is that he doesn't enjoy sex. I don't know what to do because I enjoy it but he's told me that he doesn't. He claims the problem is our weight. Because we are both over-weight it is kind of hard for him to get in deep and or hold a position. I kind of had doubts about this because he is much more experienced in that field, but he still treats me like a princess and the same as day 1 so I know this is not the cause. I cant blame him for saying that our weight is the reason because I feel the same way to a certain extent. There are very few times when he gets in very good but cant hold the position and then we both get frustrated. We've tried different positions like doggy style, missionary and spoon, but none of them seem to work for us, at least not long enough for us to really enjoy it. I don't want our relationship to end because of this problem, which is why both of us have agreed to try to lose weight together. We've set goals and prizes and what not, but my question is ladies, what can I do to make up for this? or if any of you have been in this situation before, are there any positions that might work for us? I know there are a lot of over-weight couples out there that have great sex lives, so please help!