My breasts are very small, a 34A and I've never felt too bad about it. I mean no bad back, jiggling around like larger women but the other day when my boyfriend and I were having sex he said he wished I had larger breasts. I was shocked, how dare he insult me. Maybe I wished he had a bigger package or was taller. But I flipped out and forced him out of me and yelled at him for an hour. He said it was just spur of the moment but I can't forgive him because this is what he really thinks. He apologized and said that they are fine a million times and I don't know what to say anymore!
Wonderbra
Hmm..
Well I cannot say I have shared this same experience as I was pretty blessed when It comes to the twins.
I can understand though how that might make you feel, almost like you are noog good enough, or sexy enough for him...and how dare he say it WHILE you are doing the deed.
I wouldnt get too hot and bothered about it, but I agree with you letting him know that it upset you.
1Would it make you feel better if I told you that I don't think 34A is that small...?
(Honest opinion)
2I would have said "Well, I wish you had a bigger d*ck" see how he feels about that one! Seriously, you have every right to be upset and extremely hurt. Someone you trust insulted your appearance. I applaud you for not feeling the urge to look like every other fake breasted bimbo and loving your boobs! I have pretty big boobs and don't think there is really anything special about them. He needs to get his ass kicked to the curb. If he has no problem saying something that insulting to you I can only imagine what else is to come...
3Well, he's a jerk and there's nothing you can do about that. Time to move on.
4i agree 100% with lemassabielle!!
5not time to move on.
tell him to be happy with them
or... to buy you implants! hehehe!
but no seriously. if you insult him, he will see why it hurt you so bad.
either that... or....
6threaten to cut his weewee off for hurting your feelings.
Rashell - now thats what I am talking about!!
7Well, I agree w/ the poster who'd say "I wish you have a bigger penis."
Or casually mention to him how his penis doesn't curve right for you, or that it's not thick and wide enough, and that he should be considering a penile implant IF he dares bring this breast issue to you again.
Time to move on.
8I agree
9So your boyfriend was a bit of an idiot for opening his big mouth but I'm not sure I'd throw him out over it, if you guys have an otherwise great relationship.
10Go with the penis comment.
No one has any place to make
demands on others over their body. It's your temple and the only one you'll ever have. He is nothing and no one to be dissatisfied with what inst his. I hate women being relegated to just
body parts as if we were just souless vessels.
11That is a very direspectful and ignorant comment for him to make, especially when you are lovemaking. If you love somebody entirely, then you are to love everything both inside and out about that person. I know you obviously love your boyfriend, and how much it must've hurt you, especially the timing factor, when he made such a judgemental comment towards you. He can apoligize all he wants, but that doesn't change the fact that he has already made that comment. If you are happy with yourself and the way you look, than that is really all that matters in the longrun. In my honest opinion, you really need to sit down and have a long discussion with him about how much this comment has hurt you, and that if you truly love someone you DON'T say things to hurt that person. He definitely has a lot of making up to do, because actions speak louder than words. Don't let anyone ever get you down or make you feel worthless in any way, because YOU ARE NOT! Tell him to get a penis enlargement....lol....that should get him back! No, but really, twon wrongs don't make a right, you need to talk to him firmly. I hope things work out for the better for you!
12Using the penis enlargement comment won't make it right, then you both would be in an awkward situation!
13Someone who truly loves you and accepts you would NEVER, EVER say this type of thing! Even if he is just a stupid man, take this comment as a warning sign of what is to come in the future from him, and it doesn't sound good to me. He sounds very superficial to me. Lots of men will love you for EXACTLY the way you are. Time to upgrade, maybe you can find a guy with a bigger penis next time, who actually knows how to treat a woman they are supposedly in love with! He doesn't deserve you, don't take this to heart, your breasts are probably perfectly beautiful. HE is the one with the problem.
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