I know this is anonymous but if you want to see a picture of him and I my screenname is Fallen85.

My boyfriend and I started seeing each other casually. He was seeing another girl at the same time and he decided to go forward with her. He and I stopped seeing each other but started talking again shortly after he started getting "serious" with her. We stayed friends and started falling for each other so he was trying to break up with the other girl. Problem was, all of his friends absolutely loved her. He wasnt fond of her because he doesnt drink very much but she would get black-out drunk every weekend and it was too much for him. He and I have tons of things in common, we get along very very well and the only things we argue about are whether we should take his car or mine.

Anyways, after about 2 months of dating the other girl she found out about me and flipped out, obviously. His friends were all really mad at him for breaking her heart and everything went bananas so he just stayed away from all of them for a couple weeks til everything cooled down. Meanwhile, they all figured that I was the one making him stay away (I absolutely wasnt) and found out that he and I were still seeing each other. Now they all think I'm a controlling, home wrecking psycho-path that stole their best buddy... I under stand why theyd think that but still. These were all Nick's choices. I didnt tell him to do anything, I simply stood by him and supported whatever decision he made.

Anyways, fast forward to now. He's met all of my friends and they are crazy about him. I've stayed far away from his friends but last weekend I finally met one of his friends accidentaly. It was his best friend's sister's husband and he decided that I wasn't good looking enough to be with Nick. He said "Dude, she's fat. You could do waaaay better. Get back together with your ex"

Now, all of his friends still hate me. I've only met the one, the others have scoped me out of his Facebook. They all are trying desperately to get him back togehter with his ex, she shows up at all of their partys and get togethers. His ex is now best friends with his best friend's sister. It's really messed up.

My boyfriend says "Remember, it's just us. Just you and I, not everyone else. Don't worry about my friends. I'm with you for a reason and I'd be stupid to go elsewhere" but even if he belives that now... can his friends change that?

My questions are:

Is there any such thing as being out of someone's league? I mean.. he is VERY good looking and I'm really just average but can his friends affect how attractive he finds me?

Can a guy be with a woman that his friends dont like?

Is there any way for me to get his friends to realize I'm not a bad person and that Nick is with me for a reason..?

I really dont want to lose him. He makes me so happy but I'm worried about our future... ladies, give me some advice!! Anyone been in this situation??