I love my hubby very much, more then I ever loved my ex husband. He is 5 years older then me, he is 43 and I am 38. He says since he is older he has passed his sexual prime (he was very much into it when he was a teen and young man, so he says) and just doesn't have any interest in having sex with me or with anyone else, he just has no interest. So why then does he spend all night on the computer on internet chat sites and porn sites talking and watching sex? If he isn't interested in it, why does he talk it and watch it? I don't understand. He says and his friends call him a horn dog but when we are home alone, he really isn't. Any advise for me?