Okay, so I'm 19 and have never had a boyfriend. The last 'boyfriend" i had was when i was in 8th grade, it was a total stupid junior high thing, but I was head of heels with the guy. After we graduated, I didn't hear from him, we went to the same school, well sort of we went to same sex schools and they were brother-sister schools, and yet nothing. I saw him occasionally and I would smile but get nothing from him back. I found him on facebook and added him, I was just wondering what I should say when I message him. I'm totally over it as it was how many years ago, its just weird because I haven't seen or talked to him in so long, he meant a lot to me even if it was only a junior high thing. so help? please.