My boyfriend and porn/webcams

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My boyfriend and porn/webcams

10/02/2007 - 5:32AM by Anonymous - 1,325 Views

OK...my boyfriend and I have been living together for a month and I have been noticing his computer habits. He is on his computer more than I have ever seen someone on a computer. From the minute he comes home to the minute he goes to bed he is on it. It used to even go with him in the bathroom which I put a stop to. He continues to be on the computer a lot and searches porn everyday. I found this webcam site that he registered for and he also goes on that everyday. I am not a prude, I like porn I just don't understand why he does it everyday. And, my sex drive is higher than his...he is happy with sex twice a week and I would like it more like four times a week. His webcam viewing makes me think that he would rather search porn than have sex with me. I have done different things to try and spice it up in the bedroom and believe me I am no slouch in the sack. He told me that porn and our relationship are not related and it is two separate things but, I just don't understand why he wouldn't want to be intimate with a real live woman that he loves rather than some internet webcam girl. Any suggestions...I am having a hard time dealing with this...his porn viewing makes me feel like he wants something I can never give him...UGH!

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popgoestheworld [+]

I'm notorious for standing up for porn watchers, but I'm going to take your side on this.

And it's not because I'm anti-porn. It's because it sounds like your boyfriend spends 24/7 ignoring you in favor of his computer.

Honestly, who would want to date someone that had so little interest in the outside world and spent all his time on webcam sites? I would be bored out of my skull!

If life is this dreary 1 month into living together... can you imagine spending the rest of your life like this?

If you really love him and breaking up isn't an option, please talk to him about what your expectations are. Take a local class together in the evenings, go on date nights, play cards or watch TV together... whatever it is, it shouldn't involve the computer!

If he's not willing to compromise, that says something about his personality!

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Tue, 10/02/2007 - 9:38am Report Comment

lemassabielle [+]

I think he might be addicted to pornography. It seems a little excessive, no wonder he doesn't want to have sex with you as much. He's probably getting all of his energy out looking at porn. Serious discussion in need.

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Tue, 10/02/2007 - 2:12pm Report Comment

I agree with lemassabielle. He's addicted to his porn and his computer. While I understand that porn is almost like a necessity for men, this is over the top and he doesn't show any respect for you and your needs. Where do you come in? After the porn, obviously. Either he puts you first, or nothing goes, is how I see it.

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Tue, 10/02/2007 - 9:41pm Report Comment

Well, may be you should buy a webcam, a simple one, smth like http://www.webcam-list.com/blog/2007/09/usb-webcam-makes-you-look-good-o... install it at your place and mastrubate in front of it/or dance a strip. And do not forget to support

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Thu, 11/15/2007 - 10:10pm Report Comment

him with a link to it Smiling I bet He'll be at your place in a second!

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Thu, 11/15/2007 - 10:11pm Report Comment

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