So I am fairly new at the 'dating game' as I just got out of a long 4yr relationship. I met this guy who is a bit older than me one night outside of a party. He asked me to go to his friend's party that night and I agreed. We had a nice time and then I went back to his place. He was a gentleman and we just stayed up and talked until the morning. We did end up sleeping together but then spent the entire next day together watching movies. I left his place and he called me right when I got home. I was going out of town the next week and he asked me to call him upon my return. When I got back I text messaged him that I was back. He responded that he was glad I was back safe and sound. The next day he asked me if he could cook me dinner and when would work for me. I said Friday and he said that if I promised it would be worth it he would cancel his plans. He said that he 'missed me' and I said that I must have made quite an impression on him. He responded by saying that I was 'so beautiful' and he hoped it wasn't a 'one night thing'. I followed up the next day asking about Friday. Didn't hear back from him until Friday night where he said he was 'sorry but he just got his phone back'. We texted back and forth a few times, again him saying he missed me and would love to see me. I went over to his place and we had a great night. We again staying up until the morning talking, listening to music, etc. We slept together again and we again stayed in end until the evening the next day. He then texted me the next day saying he had a 'great time'. I responded by saying I had a great time too. It was been 2 days now since I have heard from him. Do I text him again? Is the ball in his court? Should I reach out to him some how? Should I play hard to get? Why would he say all of this nice stuff to me?  I feel like I am bordering on just being a hook up. How do I be sure I don't fall into that category?  Thank you!