Hi everyone! i really need your help on this, here is the deal: i'm 18 year old, and for 7 months i've this amazing boyfriend who makes me feel so good. All the guys that i've been with were a mess and really hurt me, but with this one i got into a longer relationship ( the other just spend me a month or 2 ) and he treats me rigth, and respect me. A few weeks later we spend a nigth together but nothing really hapen because we decide not to rush things. But as time goes by he is getting more and more exciting and keeps telling me that wants me so bad. But my problem is: ' is this rigth ?'. Im not a virgin any more but evan so this is always special for me. Am im being too antiquated? the thing is that i dont want to push him away from me, and he's been holding this for a very long time. Im always afraid to get hurt and he knows it, he is not pushing this subject many time because of that but i feel like im the one who got to decide. Hes waiting for me to feel ok with this. What do you thing ?!
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I like to live by the idea that "when it's time for sex, it feels right". Since you're having doubts about how ready you feel to have sex in this relationship, it's probably not the right time yet. And if he really loves you and really wants to be with you, waiting a little longer shouldn't be a deterrent for him to be dating you.
1If he does really care about YOU, he'll wait until you're ready. I'm glad you're taking your time with it. I think the anticipation makes it better, for both of you, so don't feel like you're doing him wrong by making him wait.
2I think that there must be some other issue at play here. Did you feel like you had sex too early in your other relationships? Are you afraid of having sex with him because you don't want to get hurt? Or is it just that you are not really very attracted to him? There is nothing wrong with waiting until you are ready to have sex, don't feel pressured into it if you are not ready. But somehow I get the feeling that there may be something else going on here aside from that. Maybe you could explore those issues further? I think the fact that he has stayed with you for this long shows that he is not with you just for the sex, or that he does not intend to break up with you once you have sex. It is your body, so do things when or if you feel right about them. Good luck.
3Just because you are not longer a virgin does not means you have to sleep with every guy you go out with. As stated above, if he cares he will wait. I don't think you are being antiquated at all. Sex is an important thing, and you have to do it when you are ready. Since you have your doubts I will recommend for you to talk to him, or wait until you are 100 percent sure.
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