so i have been with my boyfriend for about 5 months, however the first 3 out of 5 months i had another bf.. i was cheating.i was having sex with the new guy n lost interest in the old one. this guy was soooo into me. i knew it was real though because he would tell my friends and even his friends how much he adored me and wantd to be with me. so i finally broke up with my boyfriend and started to date the new guy. at first everything was great we even started to say i love you. we would hang out all the time, we met each other parents , etc etc.. however a few weeks ago i went hrough his phone and saw texts from girls. one was him teling her he wants to "naked wrestle" and the other were to some other chick, i left his house pissed off as hell n didnt talk to to him when i got home or the next day like normal. when he finally asked whats wrong i told him. he said the naked wrestling was a joke n he wont talk to her ever again.. then the other chick, well he got married to her. it was his ex gf who was not a us citizen. he told her long before me that he would marry her for her to be legal. however they got married when were talking , having sex n i was still with my ex bf. but he says he doesnt like her anymore doesnt wanna be with her wants to be with me n only talks to her when necesary (document stuff).. he told me he loves me and only wants me n wont talk to them again.. bla bla.. so then everything was ok. now i keep thinking about that stuff and its all i think about . and its not good. if im not with him then all i htink he is doing is talking to chicks. then the other night we got in a fight bc he asked me to come over after work so i did. however before tht i tried callin n texting but his fone was off. so i started flipping out sending texts n then i juss drove to his house. rang the doorbell n no answer. 45 mins later i finally get a call from him saying he fell asleep n he was sorry bc his fone is a piece of crap,wich it is, but he said he didnt hear the doorbell. so then i started sending more crazy texts saying he doesnt like me any more n if he doesnt wanna be with me then he should let me no. and then i asked why he doesnt wanna have sex and he said because sometimes it smells. and it turns him off?!? really , doesnt every girl smell? sometimes mine can be bad though, wich i need to see a doctor for. but before we used to have sex like 3 times every time we saw eachtoehr. but then anyways so last night wen he got out of school i asked him to come over, n he said he went to his friends houes. and i started to flip out again bc after all the sh*t we argued about the day before he STILL did not want to see me. he wouldnt answer my calls when i called n sent me mean texts. saying im stressing him out, pissing him off. etc. and then i finally went to bed, he didnt send me any more texts ,
Do i flip out too much or is it normal for girls to do that when they think their man isnt like he used to be or spending time with u like he used to ?????