So me and my boyfriend of six months are both freshman in college. We live on the same floor in the same dorm, and are madly in love with each other. However, we haven't been able to find any alone time in the past three weeks. We both think it would be too rude to ask our roommates to scram so we could fool around, but we're going insane! What should we do?
Top Brands
Steve Madden
Converse
1928 Collection
Get a hotel room.....
1It sucks when you have no privacy.
My suggestion would be to get a hotel room or use your imagination and try being creative. Good Luck to you!
2Do you and your roommates all have the same class schedules or something? Geez, get your freak on when one of your roommates is in class - you can have the room, and you'll know you won't be disturbed. (And you and your bf may want to look into a class in logic and/or problem solving - c'mon girl, y'all should be able to figure this one out!)
3It's okay to ask a roommate to make him/herself scarce for a short period of time, I think. That means you'll have to plan ahead and be careful not to impose too much. Alternate between his room and yours and be gracious about getting the favor when your roommates oblige. Get an air freshener or something to keep it smelling fresh in there, too. And use protection...
4You should talk to your roommate about the situation. Really its not a big deal, its just part of living in dorms. One of the first things my friends did when they got roommates was discuss what they should do about sex.
5First, you should talk to your roommate about the situation. MOST roommates will be understanding and be able to find something to go do for an hour or two (like go study in a library) without much complaint. Some however can be REALLY annoying (like my roommate last year, who would complain if my boyfriend and I said "hey, we really need some alone time, could you find something to do for a couple hours on this date a month or so in the future?". She'd get p1ssy the day of because we didn't give her enough time to find something to do, or she'd complain that she couldn't use her laptop, or whatever). It really depends on your roommate.
If you have a roommate like mine was, prepare to have an emotionally terrible year unless there's a hotel nearby and you have $50 or so extra to rent one. Then there's always the option to just go at it in the common areas (the reason you don't want to touch most common area furniture in dorms, I have horror stories I can tell you). Dorms royally suck. And next year, get a single room.
6I'm sure you'll think of something...
7If you're smart enough to get into college you should be smart enough to figure out how to hook up.
8Post A Comment
To post comments, please log in or register.