My boyfriend and I live about 3 hours away from eachother but we have made the effort to make this long distance relationship work for two and half years. We have a deep connection and we've talked about taking the next step after we are both done school. He is 25 and I am 27.
Last weekend he screwed up big time but it wasn't until I brought it up that he admitted to it. Last friday he said he was going out with his friend Matt... he text me throughout the night saying sweet things and when I asked if he was having fun he said "I think so". He called me when he was walking home and all of a sudden his phone cut out and I couldn't get a hold of him for a about an hour. I was more worried than anything and when he finally called back he said that he went back in to look for his friend but his friend had gone to another location blah blah blah. I knew it was complete bs.
I waited until the next time we saw eachother to ask him about it in person (1 week later) and I also looked at his phone to confirm my suspicion. There was a text message from Charlene, a girl whom I've heard of because he has told me she was a nerdy friend in his petroleum classes, telling him to bring beer to this house party she was at.
Long story short... he lied to me about where he was going and who he was going to be with. He said he made the decision to lie when he was drunk and stupid.
I don't believe that he cheated on me but then again I don't know why he would lie. Maybe it was just an innocent mistake...I don't know what to do. We talked about it and he said he was truly sorry and that it would never happen again. Would he have apologized if I had not brought it up? Has this happened before? So many questions but I will never know the answers to them. I just don't know if this is enough to break us up. I am so sad. What does this mean? He is the last person I would ave expected this from Sad
 

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