I've got to be honest with you, OP - I'M angry with you for filling your post with texting abbreviations to the point that it's virtually unintelligible.

Apologies if you are a real person, but...

I'm calling bad troll on this one.

Step 1: Start speaking and typing ENGLISH!!!

Step 2: If you can't even talk to someone, or they want you to change for them, the relationship is doomed to fail. So bail.

Ditto.

"m just only 21 year stupid girl & hez 31..... nw m in love with him he loves me 2 but he want me very efficient smart or sensible girl sm times i cnt handle him when he bcum angry wid me... he said talk me on my favr8 topics & i dnt knw wht i talk.... sm time i dnt hav anything to talk abt which irritates him alot..."

****IF I am reading this correctly, it doesn't sound like a very good match - and you are engaged? I think?....

Wow it took me a couple of times of reading this post to understand what the hell the OP was actually trying to say......It gets me nuts.

Anyhow what I'm getting from this is that he's expecting you to be someone you're not.It seems like you don't meet his expectations in what he wants or needs in a partner.
You should never, ever have to change yourself for any man......period. He has to accept you for who you are or he needs to find someone else who is more suitable for him.
I don't think you should even be considering marriage with him at this point in time. It doesn't sound like he's the right guy for you........Sorry

If this is real, I am not surprised she can't talk to her fiance...she can't even write a sentence in English.

Popsugar, you really need to edit these out....they are a complete waste of time.

This guy would be a fool to marry you. You admit to being stupid and immature.

I'm not responding to this poster with my opinion on her situation, simply because of the way this was written. Typing this post like it was text message was NOT needed and annoying to read. I stopped before I reach half way through it.

And I yes, Sugar really needs to weed through this ridiculous almost illegible post in Group Therapy.

agreed. learn to spell and write then you might be able to communicate like an adult. troll

(sigh) I agree with everyone who has commented. I think that you are from a different country. Was this an arranged marriage? He is obviously going to say he loves you because he is getting married to you. The only reason I am saying this is because my ex just got engaged to a girl who is right around your age and it was arranged. Truth is, even with his life experiences he's ready to get married and make a life with you. If you feel like you are not ready then do not get married. Break the engagement. I think you should wait a couple more years before you get married and let him find someone that will give back what he gives to them.

Spread the word in your country... spelling like that is embarrassing and stupid.