Ok so last tuesday I reported that I had kissed the neighbour and last thurday I reported that I had finally decided to make my move and go over to see him, when I got there his friends were there etc.
So on Friday I decided that I would go over Saturday night, he usually has people over and it wouldn't be awkward, I would just bounce over when I was done with my friends he usually has people over and they go strong until 6a.m.
Well friday came and went and he had a friend over (male {No he's not gay}) then saturday came and him and his friend were hanging out in the garage drinking beer and watering the lawn (I know it's funny) we live in a new neighbourhood grass is a big deal. Anyway they were obvi doing there guy bonding thing so I just kept to my side (P.S. - were not directly beside each other there is a house in between that is being built, so avoidance is easy for either party) When I got home at like 1:30 a.m. all the lights were off so I went to bed. . . So thats it, I havn't had an opportunity when he has been home at a decent hour to go over and make my move and the more I think about it obviously the more rediculous it sounds like I'm 25 and he's 30. And we both have things in common we both have had serious relationships and have both been single for about a year now. . . . . . And I'm not going to lie I have kissed a few boys in the last year he was the first one that I was like "huh, this is great" He just seems like such a sweetie that I would kick myself if I just don't get up the friggin guts to ask him out. . . .
And as for why he hasn't ventured over to my house is obvious I live with my parents, ( I broke up with someone that I was living with about 8 months ago and it was just easier to go home) and my two younger siblings are both home on summer break from university and college. Yeah I personally wouldn't be knocking on a door like that at my age either. . .
I'm so frustrated and I feel like such a chicken!!! What do you guys think I should do? Wait it out for the long weekend? or Knock at the first opportunity??
Vicenza
I kinda seems that you are taking this more seriously than you should. Before this starts becoming an obsession for you, I think you should try to stress too much about it. It was a casual thing, and I think if something has to happen it will. I think you should just enjoy it as it comes, and I'm sure you will end up finding the right time, but don't worry, don't fall in love yet, just see where it takes you... something good can come out of this, or nothing can come out of it... either way, you'll be fine.
1straight out ask him out. then you will know how he feels. If he says no-run like hell!LOL good luck. i enjoy your postings
2Yeah, I agree with angelbaby2, go ahead and ask him, or he might think you aren't interested and give up. I would make it very casual though because you don't really know how he feels.
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