My boyfriend likes it when a girl is shy and modest when it comes to sex.

I used to blush whenever my boyfriend said something dirty, and I was also too shy to initiate anything during sex.

Everyone gets used to things, whether it's hearing dirty words, or doing dirty things... eventually it'll become within comfort zone.

It's been over three years since we've been together, and we've had so much sex that I'm no longer shy or uncomfortable.

'm still shy in public, but with him I've become comfortable, and I don't blush anymore when he says something sexy to me, or during sex.

My boyfriend keeps commenting on how nice it is when girls are shy, when we see those quiet girls during every day lives.
Once, when I initiated sex, he said, "I'd like to think that I get horny first."

I'm scared that my boyfriend would like me to be a traditional, shy girl when it comes to sex, and I used to be, but it's wearing off, because, shyness can only last so long before you get over it.

I can pretend to be shy, I guess, and not initiate sex, but I don't know if I should pretend?

Please help!