I'm 20 years old, and for several years I've dyed my hair black, and for the past year, dyed my bangs blonde. I really like my hair, and I used to have "fishbowl green" bangs, which my boyfriend found to be a real turn on. Due to work though, I was asked to change the color of my hair, so that's when I switched to the blonde.

The thing is, my mother thinks I should dye my hair a different color, or in her eyes, a more adult color, like a chocolate brown or something that's not black. To some degree I agree with her, I'm ready to change my look to look a little more adult, but at the same time my boyfriend says he loves my hair just the way it is, and doesn't want me to change it. I'm stuck between both of their opinions, because on one side I really do want to change to be more adult and at the same time I want to keep my fun, creative look. I figure I'm not taking on a serious career at the moment, so is it necessary to make an adult change now?

I have very light skin and blue eyes. Any suggestions on what type of hair colors would best accent my skin and eyes? And how should I decide between the opinions of my mother and my boyfriend of two years?