Hey guys,
I've only ever been with one guy (and he's only been with me) so I am not super "experienced" and don't know the answer to this. My friend and I were discussing oral sex and how to be safe, and I read somewhere that your guy is supposed to wear a condom when you perform oral sex on him. I can't imagine that being too great for either of you or that he'd want to, but if you are with someone who has been with other people, what are you supposed to do in this situation to be safe? What do you guys usually do about this?
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I don't really think it's necessary.
1I don't think its necessary either since he's only been with & you only with him.
2It is personal prefrance look at it like this if you don't like the taste of seamon in your mouth and he would like to have an orgasum in your mouth then use it.
As for taste here are all kinda of flavors out there that are spifaclly designed for oral sex not ment for sex.
Felling it feels the same you will just need to pratice with your toung to get the felling he likes.
don't b afrade to ask what he like and how he likes it.
There are also dental dams a most during PMS but a little lub on u under the dam u cant feel the differance,,
this also keeps the semaon in a save place espaclly if you dont what to get preg
3I don't think that oral sex is a very high risk activity. Certainly, there is a very, very small chance that you could contract something like HIV from this sex act. However, you can get herpes in your throat or on your gums, gonorrehea or HPV in your throat. But I am fairly certain that the risk is very small. I know one girl that got herpes in her mouth from giving oral, but she has literally slept with at least 150 people, so I don't think that it is exceptionally likely to happen to the average person. Please talk to your doctor and research the risks associated with oral sex on medical websites, then make an educated decision for yourself. If this guy has only been with you, then I really don't think that you have anything to worry about related to STI's. Overall, I think that you are ok on this one. Good luck.
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4i think that you shouldn't be giving anyone oral sex unless you were exclusive and you've both been tested. many different stds can be passed on through oral sex. if you really want to use a condom when giving oral sex i suggest flavored and colored condoms to keep it fun and interesting. i would definitely not put a regular condom in my mouth yuck.
5I have everyone whose dick is coming near me get fully checked out by a doctor and hand me the results. If a man isn't willing to go through that for my sake, then he's not worth it.
If you do end up using condoms, get a flavored one from a sex shop. I can't imagine how the normal ones would taste. Blech.
6Ask a doctor. Good clean of health human beings out there just go sans as far as I know.
7He hasn't been with anyone else, that you know of, the fact is most times you don't know . People lie to get what they want. Use flavored condoms, if you decide to do it anyway.
8I agree that if you guys are exclusive and you guys are both tested (regardless if it's your 'first time' or his too), and things are ok, then perhaps you can consider having it without condom. I don't use one when I'm having oral sex with hub.
Normal condom is..yeah, they don't taste good but if you're pressed for it, get a 'plain' one, def. stay away with the one with spermicide by the way, that's just nasty taste-wise.
But if you have time to prepare, I agree with the others, get the flavored ones, they taste a tad better.
*Unconditional love is a beautiful thing, just be sure to give it AFTER your conditions have been met.*
9GET TESTED!
I'm a huge advocate of getting tested as a couple before intimacy... although realistically, well - I wish at least that STI tests were automatic with annual doctor checkups *sigh*
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