I've been recently noticing that I have frequent dreams involving my boyfriend cheating on me or leaving me for another girl. I hate this! I end up feeling all weird and uneasy in the mornings! I never think about my boyfriend cheating on me or anything during the day so I don't know why this is popping up at night.
I've been going out with my boyfriend for quite some time (3 years) and in the beginning of our relationship, I'll admit I was a little uneasy. My boyfriend is much more open about talking to exgirlfriends and stuff, so to him what was being friendly, seemed kind of inappropriate to me. We've worked it out and we have had no such issues in a REALLY long time (like 1-2 years) so... what's the deal with my dreams? Is this a sign that I am paranoid or really insecure? Any suggestions on how to stop having these dreams?
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Dreams can rarely be translated directly to real life. It's more likely that you're feeling a loss of control/certainty in another area of your life - at work or with your family, maybe. Take a good hard look at the other relationships you're in (with boss, sister, mother, coworker, etc) and see what you come up with.
1Exactly, the subject of the dream does not directly point to the issue. More likely you're feeling insecure about something else in your life.
2I dreamed that I caught my bf making out with my cousin the other night and in my dream I was so hurt and confused and he was chasing me trying to apologise. Creepy dream. I have no idea where it came from either. I've never had a reason to doubt him. Eh, I guess it was just a dream and we have little control over them.
3Change your pillow or change the smells in your room. Spray lavender on your bed/pillow and have a hot shower before bed. I have dreams like this all the time, recently though I've been cheating on him in my dreams. I have two pillows in my room and switch between them frequently because it seems to change my dreams.
Dreams have almost nothing to do with reality, dont look so far into it.
Good luck
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4Yes, you are probably feeling a little off about something. It might be related to your boyfriend, so I wouldn't dismiss that, but it's more likely that it is about something else. For some reason I have a recurring set of upsetting dreams about a really nice guy I once dated, and to this day I have no idea why I keep dreaming about him because I never think about him or see him anymore.
5I used to have dreams like this. I think the more you DON'T want to have a dream the more you have it because it's on your mind.
Dreams are just dreams. Just let yourself have them and don't worry about their significance.
6Wow. I don't know. Maybe you are a bit unnerved about his chats with ex's. Anyway they are just dreams.
7I would try to get your mind on something different before you go to sleep. If you read, then pick up a book, or watch a movie. One time for a while I had a rain CD, and a wind CD that would be nice to listen to as I fell asleep. Maybe that's an idea? I think people dream about fears. I fear storms, tornadoes because we had a few come close to a town I lived in once, so I have nightmares about that warning siren going off and standing in a basement corner. Also dreams can be feelings of helplessness. Like not being able to help my brother or maybe my son from some mortal danger, and no one will help. Horrible stuff like that. I know it's because my dad died suddenly when he was young and no one was around to help him. Best thing to do is try your best to have better dreams and understand them if you can. Especially recurring dreams. Make a choice to not have that dream. They say you can do that.
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