hi everybody ! I need some advice about having sex..
I was a virgin till my bf fingered my vagina (There was no blood during&after) and i dont know how elastic my hymen intact anyway...i didnt want to have sex with my bf and he started rubbing on my vagina...it was like 3-4 times and it was the very beginning) and 3-4 min. later he ejaculated and not near my vagina...but i wonder is there any possible way that i might be pregnant....I know this question looks like idiotic but it was the first time for me i am scared..and dont know what to do
John Frieda
Hogan
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first of all, when u say he was "rubbing you", im assuming you mean he was rubbing your vagina with his penis..but there was no penetration.
1usually, if there is no penetration, then there is not much to worry about..but, if his penis entered your vagina at all (even if it was "just the tip") then pre-ejaculate may have been released into you. i honestly would not get that nervous..just wait until your period is supposed to arrive and if it does not show, then i would take a pregnancy test.
for future reference, even if you do not have sex PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE use a condom! even if he is just "rubbing" against you, he can still release fluid that could contain sperm, or even an STD.
hope this helps!
I wish I can help, but I am a virgin .
2So good luck, and next time be save.
i don't think you are pregnant..if there was no penetration or if he didn't ejaculate inside you...you definitely aren't pregnant at all,i know it's scary and all,but maybe you should tell him how you feel about the whole thing,how you are not ready and don't want to be pressured.if he loves you,he'll wait until you feel comfortable enough to do it....good luck
3Actually there does not need to be penetration - ejaculation near can potentially allow some energetic sperm to somehow contact an egg. I do mean near not on your foot.
It doesn't sound like your at much risk of a pregnancy, but I once had a completely neurotic pregnancy scare and didn't feel better until I had a negative pregnancy test - even though logically I knew there was virtually no chance that I was pregnant. so if you're as anxious as I can be (I hope not) - three weeks out, first morning urine, pee on a stick.
Also, I agree with danizzle - even without penetration, you could still be at risk for herpes and hpv at least, if there is pre ejaculation you could be at risk for all of those potential blood/body fluid born disesaes (HIV, Hep C, chlamydia, gonorrhea). Protect yourself. It would be a shame for 30 seconds to last the rest of your life.
4oh, and talk to your doctor - much better source of medical information.
***Even if you are under age, you can be treated for pregnancy and sexually transmitted infections (and drug issues, for that matter) WITHOUT parental consent.
5I wouldn't worry about it. You would have to be ovulating and have some of his sperm would have had to enter your body from the outside. Is it possible? Yeah, anything is possible. Is it likely? Hells no.
6do not panic Smyrna - ok? as all said previously - stay calm and next time - YES - use a condom - pls
it is FOR YOUR OWN SAFETY -
7Here we go again.
8well ... u should be more careful with this stuff next time... u never really know what a guy does down there, and then u get 2 suffer from it!! u can't be pregnant if there was no intercourse with ejaculation inside u... having sex is not so much of a big deal, but try 2 protect yourself, never count on a guy 2 do it for u...
9Please get some sex ed. Planned Parenthood offers classes for free.
10just to clarify it is not me..its my friend problem...she did need to hear what she want in the first place and i suggest that you can find solution on Sugar...
11No, she can do as Luisa said and go to planned parenthood or to a health fair. They're better equipped to help someone that's ignorant of such vital information.
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