I was in my hometown for about a month. A few days before I was leaving, I put on twitter that I was going to see a cover band at a local bar. Then I started getting texts from a guy I hooked up with a couple times in college (5 years ago) that he might meet me there and maybe we'd end up back at his place. I told him before I could end up in his bed he had to actually show up. He had a reputation as a player in college, but I was prepared to "relive the old days" if he showed, and he did. When the show was over, we went back to his place and started fooling around. The foreplay got me off and I was ready for more when he says he doesn't have any condoms. I think that's a pretty lame excuse considering he had ample time to get some. My question is, what is his deal? Why bother to invite me back to his house - or text me that he hopes we hook up after the show - and then not be prepared? Since then he's texted me saying he wished he had a condom that night. It makes no sense to me. Any thoughts?
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Players are stupid. They're ill-prepared and expect other people to do all the work/take all the responsibility. Be glad you didn't have sex. God knows what you would have caught.
1Be responsible and don't do ANY one night stands. It's safer physically and mentally.
2It's probably for the best that nothing happened. He doesn't sound like much of a winner, condoms or no condoms.
3ummm he tried to play stupid so you would let him have sex with you without a condom obviously. he probably did have them but he would've looked like even more of an ass if all of a sudden a condom appeared after he told you he didn't have any. either way- be glad you didn't sleep with him.
4He was either playing stupid to try to have sex without a condom or he just didn't want to have sex with you. Don't think about it too much. It's probably not worth it. He's just texting you that he's sorry or whatever to keep the booty call open for the future. I wouldn't waste my time on him.
5Ok don't bash me for asking this but...why didn't you bring any? *takes cover*
6This is so not an ideal situation, condoms or not. Ick!
7But you're right Coastal Honey... Why weren't *you* prepared for a one night stand?
8Men who have high esteem think nothing in life will affect them. Those are the types you think will be prepared for every situation including sex... and then just when you're putting your head down on his big pillows and running your hands over the 600 thread count sheets you realize they can be as thoughtless as a teenager. God forbid they might have to put a condom on like a commoner.
9Overall it's good nothing happened because all his self esteem could result in an accidental pregnancy or a handful of social diseases from the last 30 times he forgot.
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