Why dont you join him? Or initiate the sex? Stop feeling bad for yourself and take charge. Porn is no big deal, a guy will jerk off regardless of how much sex he's having and regardless of how uncomfortable it may make you. It's natural. My man and I get busy at least once a day and he will still watch porn sometimes.

Take 'er easy and just get the sex you want by going up and taking it. I'm sure your man will love it!

"Those who cannot learn from history are doomed to repeat it"

The thing is that about 99% of men masturbate and most masturbate to porn. It is weird, men seem to regard masturbation as totally separate from their sex lives. They will do it whether they having lots of sex, not having lots of sex, single, in a relationship, etc... I would try not to take it personally if I were you. If you want to have more sex with him, then talk to him about that. But even if you are having tons of sex, expect that he will still do this. It is just a normal, guy thing to do. If you want more sex, then jump on him and get down, or watch some porn with him if you can. Good luck.

"We are what we think. All that we are arises with our thoughts. With our thoughts we make the world." Buddha

Talk to him about it, including your desire for more sex. He isn't the only one to initiate things though. You need to do that too. If it is a matter of how it impacts your sex life, then sure I would be upset too. But only if you know you are doing everything on your end too.

Thanks for all the advice! I feel a lot better now. I'll try to be a little more relaxed about it.

-K

I would be somewhat cautious. I caught my husband doing that and I didn't like it much. It seems to me he was looking at other beautiful women and not including me in on the action. I confronted him immediatley and asked if he was addicted. He shyed away from the argument but I made my feelings clear.
We look at it together or not at all.

I have been battling this with my husband for 9 years. It's not okay for your husband to watch other people have sex without you. Intimacy is between a man and wife and when outside images and temptations are let in, those images and lusts stay with you in your mind and your heart. No longer allowing you to be true in a sense. Sometimes even watching together can be unhealthy and can destroy the trust and confidence that is vital to intimacy.

Honey, this is easy Why don't you do the same and let him catch you! I assure you guys will end up playing a wild game! There is nothing wrong with masturbation since it is just a part of your sexuality

Maybe your boyfriend is feeling a little negleted. You said he hasn't initiated sex with you in almost a week. Next time, you do the initiating. I'm sure you will find the results are just as good as when he does if not better and it will make him feel great about himself. Knowing that you want him sexually as much as he wants you will be a real turn on and do wonders for his ego. We have to watch those super sensitive male egos.
All the Best!