This is a rant and a question. I am 23, I have a steady job, and I am good with my money. Regardless of all of that, I absolutely cannot get a credit card! I would be more understanding if I didn't know an 18 year old who works part time and has one. My boyfriend of three years, who is my age, just got a credit card because his boss knows someone who is the manager of the bank (previously, before his boss spoke to the guy at the bank, he was turned down) My boyfriend makes more than I do...at 80 grand a year for now. So what the hell? 18 year old makes less money than me, has a credit card. My boyfriend who makes that much money was refused for many credit cards until his boss pulled strings, and I don't have one at all. I would love to get credit because my boyfriend and I are planning on getting married and buying a house fairly soon, and I think good credit would help with a mortgage. Good credit can help with a lot. I just can't get any. I have spoken to banks, but they just say it's a catch 22. I ask them all why I was refused for a credit card, and they say it's because I don't have any credit! That is ridiculous to me.

Does anyone have any ideas on how to get a credit card, or do I just have to live with the fact that since I don't have any, I can't get any?