Ok, what do you mean by you can't feel anything? Like you can't feel his dick inside you? Or, you can't feel anything good?

First of all, you're just starting having sex. It's like anything - you get better over time.

Second of all, the large majority of women don't climax during sex.

So what to do? Well, I'd spend this time exploring different positions to see what feels best to you. If you're on top, you can have him use his fingers to touch your clit while you're having sex. And, you can control the movement to see if you can find something you like.

In any case, don't stress too much. Seems like you had really high expectations and you're not going to live up to them in the first month of having sex. It really does take time to figure out what you like.

Ok here's a problem I have some experience with! I'm 27 and I first became sexually active when I was 15. Pretty young, but anyway, for the longest I wondered what the big deal was about sex. I enjoyed the closeness and intimacy of being with my boyfriend, but actual intercourse/penetration didn't do anything for me! It took years before I was able to orgasm from intercourse. And I needed LOTS of clitoral stimulation and foreplay to be able to be even close to getting there. You mentioned that you orgasm from masturbation and oral sex...this is very good, personally I couldn't even have a clitoral orgasm for years, even when masturbating. I guess it just takes some of us time for our minds/bodies to catch up, remember some women keep maturing well into their 20s. But not to scare you...I had plenty of fun, exciting sex without orgasms from penetration!

Now, with the man I'm currently dating, I have orgasms several times during intercourse. Keep in mind I'm 27 now and it's taken me this long to get to this point! It may not take so long for you but just remember it's not abnormal to feel very little when he penetrates you. Some women simply don't have as many nerve endings inside their vagina, and since every women is shaped different inside, penis size/shape can make a big difference! I had my first g-spot orgasm with a guy who had a curved penis...I guess he could just get in the right spot! My advice is to try getting really, really aroused from clitoral stimulation before ya'll have intercourse, and get on top like the previous commenter advised. Also, your psychological state is very important....by this I mean, do you feel sexy and turned-on by sex, or nervous and shy? It's ok to feel nervous but remember that as your relationship deepens, your confidence and feelings may allow you to have a more intense sexual experience. I chalk up my current flood of orgasms to the fact that I'm VERY turned on by my boyfriend. He really does it for me on a level that my ex didn't....and I'm not talking looks, I just mean in my mind! The brain is your biggest sex organ, after all! So I guess to sum up: things will likely improve as you get older, your body is still maturing (i think, you don't say how old you are) and eventually your mind and body will be in sync. Don't dwell too much on the negative, it's a very common frustration among girls when they first start having sex. Enjoy this special time in your life, be safe and good luck to you! If you have any other questions feel free to ask me, I'll hit post&subscribe in case you comment back!!

you need 2 go 2 the gyno!! find out whats wrong!