I only orgasm with a vibrator, can he really tell?

04/05/2009 - 7:33AM by Anonymous - 87 Views

And I'm ok with this. However I can imagine it would be very frustrating for a guy so i...well fake it. it doesnt bother me, still love and enjoy sex and time alone with vibrator, guys happy so no problem?
Last week for the first time ever a guy said 'Your very good at faking' I bluffed and said 'If I dont orgasm I tell you' and its true sometimes when I'm not turned on i will say 'not going to happen tonight'
Can he REALLY tell? I assume i am good as I act the same way as when I orgasm with my vibrator.
I hope it was just a test and he can't really tell or that sux. Guys get so caught up in getting someone to orgasm, not there fault i need a vibrator (and trust me I've tried EVERYTHING suggested even got books on it b4 i gave up and accepted it. Just feel lucky i'm not one of those women who can never orgasm)
Advice please!

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popgoestheworld [+]

Apparently he CAN tell. What advice are you looking for exactly?

Sun, 04/05/2009 - 9:14am Report Comment

luisamapacha [+]

Of course he can tell, and it bothers him. You know how I know. HE BROUGHT IT UP. You need to stop faking it and start figuring out what works and what doesn't.

Sun, 04/05/2009 - 10:12am Report Comment

1hotmess [+]

i can't think of anything more fun than playing around with someone to figure out what DOES work....seriously... quit being a liar in the sack... he obviously cares... so let him!

Sun, 04/05/2009 - 12:21pm Report Comment

sassy_chick [+]

Tell him, and bring the vibrator to bed with you. After you two have your fun, he can help you have yours.

Sun, 04/05/2009 - 2:18pm Report Comment

annbaby [+]

Lying about it is insult on top of injury.
Especially since he gave you the chance to come clean.

Stop lying, it does neither of you any good.

Protect your heart until you find someone who can do it better than you.

Sun, 04/05/2009 - 9:45pm Report Comment

Janine22 [+]

He can tell. Why do you care so much about his ego? Just tell him the truth, because he obviously already knows it anyway. I don't get it, why bother faking it?, it is not going to help either of you. Why not bring a vibrater to bed and put it on your clit while having sex with him? Why not be honest with him and give the guy a chance to try at least?

Tue, 04/14/2009 - 6:08am Report Comment