We've been married for about 2 years. I have been on various birth control medications for the entire time, but I really don't like having sex without a condom. We've done it without a condom before, but I'm afraid of getting pregnant, and I don't really like the mess afterward. My husband puts up with wearing a condom, but I feel like he's secretly resenting me for wanting him to wear it every time. Am I being too uptight or is he being unfair?
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If you use your birth control as directed, it's more than 99% effective. I think you can relax a little.
1You are being a little uptight and unfair. One of the perks of getting married is that you don't have to worry about STDs anymore. Go see your doctor and talk about the most effective form of birth control. As for the mess, just ask him to pull out before hand. I'm sure he'll take that over wearing a condom anyday!
2god i hope youre kidding.
3Ugh, I hate the mess too. I put a beach towel on the sheets beforehand.
4Have you both been tested for ALL possible STI's? Are you absolutely, completely and totally certain that he is faithful to you all of the time? I agree that if you are on the birth control pill and take it regularly, you really don't need to worry about getting pregnant. But it is your body and your choice about whether you want him to wear one or not. If you don't like it without a condom, then he should be ok with wearing one. It is your choice.
5If you're both clean and you're on the pill you can stop using condoms. As for the mess, just leave some tissues by the bed and clean up a little.
6Wow sex with your husband with a condom or sex with your husband without a condom? Hmmm...without! You're on the pill you can relax and if you're so sacred of getting pregnant then I bet you take your pill religiously. As for the mess? Get over it. Think about your husband. He probably doesn't like the mess of dealing with condoms. Tissues next to the bed work great and I don't think I'm alone when I say sex without a condom is SO much better.
7Your being a bit uptight.
It's a mess that can easily be cleaned up so lighten up a little and enjoy.
8yeah i think you're being a bit uptight
9Uhm, I'm just wondering what the point of birth control is if you think you could get pregnant. It has it in the name.
Plus, mess is not hard to clear up. I completely agree with what Janine22 said.
10Tell him to keep using the condom! I know what you mean about the mess, and it is the absolute worst thing to deal with after sex.
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