Last year, I met this guy and we became fast friends. After a while, I realized I was crushing on him slightly but I ignored it. It became worse and worse as I realized what a cute, funny, sweet, sensitive guy he was. Then this year I decided we had been friends a long time and I should find out if he liked me as much as I liked him. So, not directly, just hinting, I asked him if he liked me. He said no. I have not been able to get over it. I've been quiet and depressed and sad ever since. And now it turns out he's not the sweet guy who I thought. He strings girls all over along so they like him and then he either dates them and dumps them or just flat out rejects them. How can I get over this evil man that I love so much?
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wow, that's tough to find out something that shocking about someone you have so much respect for. A similar situation happened to me a while ago. I was friends with a guy, and kept denying that I liked him. When I finally admitted I did like him, I completely fell, I thought he was perfect. Eventually we started dating (awkward transition from just friends to dates) and he started treating me like sh*t, which is apparently how he treated everyone he dated. We broke up. I was pretty upset about it, but I just kept myself busy doing things other than dwelling on how he hurt me. I got over him and met a good guy. (He did apologize to me a few months later, and I forgave him, but would never give him another chance.) I don't know if this will help you, but if you want to talk about it, just send me a message.
1there are what? 6, 7 billion people on the planet? half of them male? there are plenty of fish in the sea. don't let someone who is obviously not worth your tears, attention, affection, and love get in the way. there will always be someone else out there. you gotta have hope and you gotta move forward.
good luck, dear.
2Remember the answer to the question you asked, how the answer made you feel and get over this creep fast. He is not worth mooning over. Just remember what a wonderful person you are and how much better you deserve.
"Life is a gift, unwrap it and enjoy."
3Evil? That's a bit strong, don't you think? Maybe he's doing something called dating where you get to know people, go out with them, and perhaps eventually break up with people you don't like. He could have strung you along but told you right up front he didn't like you. So you are hurt or lovesick, but clearly not in love. That is something entirely different.
He doesn't like you - what more do you need to move on?
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