The issue here isn't skin color - it's that you've been cheating on your husband. Do him a favor and divorce him. He doesn't need to know why you're leaving or with whom you've been cheating. That's beside the point.

The fact that your affair is with a black man is the least of your problems. Your marriage has gotten to the point where you felt the need to find someone else and be dishonest about it. You and husband are obviously not on the same levels that you used to be. He may be a racist but he deserves honesty just as much as the next person. Let him know that you do not feel the same way that you did when you both married and tell him you want to move on. Please do not mention Tyrone to him.

so if he was white ur husband would be less mad? oh god

Once a racist usually is always a racist.

Now as for Tyrone, his race doesn't matter here. You need to be honest to your husband and tell his racist ass that you just don't want to be with him anymore. You don't have to go through the drama of telling him that you moved on to another race either. You didn't have a one night stand, you've been having this affair for 9 years! Come on lady. Be honest to yourself and your husband. You don't want him anymore so tell him now, not in another 9 years.

Dude, why do you have to mention to him that he's black anyway. And..you've been cheating for 9..freaking years?!
Do your husband a favor and just divorce him.

I wonder if you're just doing it to piss your husband off since he's racist and all, so you'd like throw in the fact that he's black. And believe me, his skin color is the LAST thing that matters here. You're cheating on him and that's it. STOP cheating or end the marriage.

did you smoke crack before you posted this? seriously.

Are you SERIOUS?!

The thing is, YOU'RE HAVING AN AFFAIR, i.e. CHEATING on your husband.

You said you were like your husband (racist, I guess? That's the way you described your husband, so...) until you met Tyrone. Are you messing around because Tyrone is actually a BETTER person/partner than your husband, or is it only because Tyrone's Black and it would piss your husband off to no end?

If your husband is suspicious, he already knows. Just tell him and get some SERIOUS counseling [if you want to stay with your husband] or divorce him and get on with life. It's not really necessary to inform him that the man you're cheating with is Black - but if you WANT to, do so at your own risk.

I don't even know how to respond to this...f*ck did we go back to the 1901 or something?

"What difference does it make to the dead, the orphans and the homeless, whether the mad destruction is wrought under the name of totalitarianism or the holy name of liberty or democracy?" Ghandi

Wow, 9 years....if it's that bad I'm beginning to think there's no point trying to salvage this. Ask yourself, do you even love your husband at all. If the answer is not yes 1000%, then why bother. Get a divorce. And besides, if he's so racist, why do you want to be with someone like that? I mean serious...I almost thought we weren't children anymore and we were all starting to grow up, but I just remembered there's still that "one" person...or people, or group, like that one that holds up traffic for some reason. Guess we're de-evolving. Anyway, I wouldn't bother mentioning skin color or anything if you were to tell him. And besides, why the hell does it matter? I guess the only difference it would make telling him with who would be if you were cheating on him with a cheetah or something.

lol!! omg these posts cracked me up hahaha.. it's like i wrote them or something. Seriously.. who gives a rats ass if he's black!! You've been cheating on him! It's not like you have to say 'hey honey, I've been cheating on you.. WITH A BLACK MAN!' DUN DUN DUNNNNN.. All you have to say is 'the spark is gone in our relationship and I've been seeing someone else. done and done.

um... wow, this must be fake... or maybe I'm just hoping it is.

I suggest calling up Jerry Springer and confessing to your husband in the respectable way. The name of the show will be "Honey, I'm sleeping with a black man!" and will be dramatic. Your husband will yell racist things and Tyrone will say "I love her, no matter her colour" and you will have to choose between your black lover and your white husband and at one point they would get in a fight and someone's shirt (possibly yours) will come off and Steve will have to block you til your shirt gets back on and then Jerry's producers will ring the bell again and the fight will start again and everyone would be chanting "Jerry Jerry Jerry Jerry" and at one point you would stand up, snap your fingers at the crowd and yell "YOU DONT KNOW ME, YOU DONT KNOW ME, SIT DOOOOWN, SIT DOOOOWN" and some one in the crowd will call you a name and then you'll go and try to attack them and Steve will stop you and make you sit down between the black man and the white man kind of like a f*cked up Oreo cookie.

I'd totally watch that show.

LMAO at fallens post

LMAO Fallen. Yea, I'd watch that show too.

OP, do what Fallen says then let us know when it'll air, ok?

lmao that was epic fallen.
id watch that sh*t.