I recall reading somewhere that woman can achieve different types of orgasms (clitoral and vaginal). I’ve never really thought much this and I enjoy a very satisfying sex life with my boyfriend however, I’ve recently become friends with a group of girls at work and the subject came up. A couple of them are much more open to discussing their sexuality and sex lives than I am used to. My boyfriend is able to give me orgasms, which are great, but never through sex, just in other ways. He is the only man I have ever been with so I am otherwise inexperienced.
One girl at work in particular has mentioned that she definitely believes there is a difference and that vaginal orgasms are significantly more satisfying. She even called clitoral orgasms ‘immature’ and some other things. The other girls, a couple of who I am really close to and completely trust, all seemed to agree with her that there was a difference. This one girl even inferred that the size of the man can make a difference and that this is the reason I’m not having vaginal orgasms. I now feel bad about mentioning some things to them but I know I did this without thinking and because of my lack of experience. So now I wonder a lot about what this girl was saying and I find that am curious about these things.
I would like to know from other girls, who have experience, if they think there is a difference between clitoral and vaginal orgasm and if so, is one really a lot better. I guess a follow up question is (depending on the answer to the first one) are there any suggestions or tips to try to have a vaginal orgasm?
Thanks
Tibi
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Jovovich-Hawk
There is certainly a difference - an orgasm that happens via the g-spot is much more intense. It has nothing to do with the size of the man, just the positions you use. Google "g spot" for specifics on how to find it (pretty easy) and go from there.
1I think there might be a difference. I can orgasm in different ways, through oral, vaginal and sometimes, I don't need none of those to feel like I am having a ecstatic moment.
I actually prefer Oral orgasms, they may longer for me but they are insanely pleasing to me.
I have noticed that Bigger, and thicker (if you know what I mean) make me orgasm Vaginally quicker than the contrary.
I say get on top, take your time and even buy like a little bullet vibrator.
Put it on your clitoris while you are on top and see if that helps you orgasm vaginally.
Good luck.
2I think there is a lot of debate about whether there are actually different types of orgasms for women. Your clitoris is connected to your g-spot anyway. Your clit runs in a nerve inside you, up to your g-spot. I don't find a big difference personally, but if I get into the right position with my guy, he is hitting my g-spot and I rub my clit at the same time, it can be pretty intense. Most women need clitoral stimulation to orgasm during sex anyway. And no, I am sorry but I disagree that clitoral orgasms are 'immature'. That information is the result of some old, ridiculous article written by a man. You can try getting into sex positions where he is hitting your g spot (doggy style and you on top with him sitting up are good for that) and rub your clit at the same time.
3Stop worrying about it, just relax, be happy you are orgasming and have fun.
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