Soooo i graduated from college 3 years ago, and have been in somewhat of a slump for awhile now. My best friends all came from my college days...these girls were my life for four straight years, and are some of the most wonderful people I know. The problem is they all live hours and states away now.
I have one close girlfriend in my hometown, she is uber busy, has a son, goes to school, full time job and a serious relationship. I miss being able to have some girlfriends or a friend to hang out with and do random girl things with. Granted while I can call up any of my college chicks and talk to them about problems I may be having, when it comes to having a pedicure buddy, shopping buddy etc etc i just dont have anyone. Its a void I am looking and wanting to fill.
I have a wonderful man in my life, and he is great...but i would really love to have a gf to confide in as well and be able to spend time with when not w the bf. I have no idea how to go about finding or making new friends. I am unemployed so meeting friends at work isnt an option...anyone have any suggestions?? Thanks! 
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melissa
You could first start out getting a job... you could meet people at work!
Maybe join a gym or a cooking club - something that interests you.
1I hear you. I'm in a similar position - it's really hard to make new friends after college. I'd suggest taking some classes - art, yoga, cooking classes, etc. Or try volunteering or joining a gym as Miss Delicious said.
In the mean time, plan a trip to go visit one of your college girlfriends so you have something to look forward to while you're trying to make new friends.
2Yeah, getting a job would probably be the best way to meet new people and make friends. Even if it is just part time. Or maybe do some volunteer work. Getting involved in a cause, for charity, or the environment, or whatever, is usually a good way to meet nice people.
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