Wow that really sux im 18 and I have a lot of them have you ever thought of the possibility that its not you its him? Maybe he's not doing it right. Maybe that's something you should consider.

LMAO at he's not doing it right...could be it, if he is inexperienced. Do you masturbate at all...you need to get to know your own body and how your normally reach orgasm and recreate those angles and pressures with your guy. Also it takes a while, I lost my virginity when I was about 19 and didn't actually have an orgasm until I was 22 or 23. And now I am multi-orgasmic...I can come until the cows come home...(tmi maybe? whoops).

The key is just to relax and not worry about hte orgasm..just enjoy his touch and the bonding and expereince. Does he do a lot of foreplay? That helps...I don't know I kind of thought I was just one of those girls who couldn't come and just didn't put any pressure on myself anymore until..well I started coming...lol. So just enjoy the act....and if he is a little inexpereinced...there are plenty of resources about how to manually stimulate a woman as well as orally...there are tons of different techniques and it will just take some fun playing around and trying different stuf..make it fun..make it a game.

"What difference does it make to the dead, the orphans and the homeless, whether the mad destruction is wrought under the name of totalitarianism or the holy name of liberty or democracy?" Ghandi

MASTURBATE girl! If you can't do it alone, you will not be able to do it with a partner there. It's that simple. Buy some toys, take your time, have fun, relax, fantasize, read a naughty story.
Try a clit vibrater or a finger vibe and put it on your clit. Don't expect to come during sex until you can do it alone! Then once you have done it through masturbation, then during sex you should rub your clit while you are having intercourse, or put the toy on your clit during it. Also, get him to give your oral sex and lick your clit.
But have some solo fun first!!!!!!!!!

concentrate!! I dont know how many times I hear girls say they can't, and it ends up its because they are worrying about who is where and stressing over whether they will or not.

Get a vibrator and take an afternoon-- play around until you find what works, then concentrate on that little itchy, tickly feeling until.... BOOM.

Try Sentia pills for women/ I couldn't have orgasms for more than 6 years and I thought that I'm just unable to feel them. I have reached my first one after the three weeks of Sentia treatment.