I have been dating a great guy for almost 3 years now that I absolutely love and adore and we have a wonderful relationship. We are currently in the process of looking at homes and just really planning our future together. I shouldn't care about his ex g/f but I absolutely hate her. Let me give you some background on her.. I know my current boyfriend through this girl. She was my best friend in middle school and soon started a high school romance with my now boyfriend. She broke their relationship off when she was a junior in high school, and he was in college. This was 7 years ago. I lost touch with my friend after high school but maintained a very close friendship with her ex. Our feelings developed and we eventually started a relationship more than 4 years after their break up. Unfortunately, she has made my life a living hell. By having her younger siblings heckle my young siblings about our relationship.. Having friends my boyfriend had in high school get in touch with him to tell him how much she misses him. I could actually go on and on and on right now but you guys get the point. For the first time in our relationship we saw her yesterday.. together. I was so enraged just looking at her but I also felt like I got some personal satisfaction that she saw us together and for some reason my guy was being super affectionate so I ate that up. I felt like a queen.. I almost felt like I was putting on a show.. Although I saw her several times and I am sure the message was loud and clear of how happy we are. I would truly like to move on and forget about her.. but for SOME reason I just have major rage towards her. I find my behavior unusual because I totally am not this type of a girl and my boyfriend could careless being that he just feels like he's so removed from her and from any type of relationship that they ever had so many years ago. Any advice on what I can do to turn my negative energy into something positive for my relationship?
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I would feel the same way. See how it turns out now that she's seen you two happy and together and strong and hopefully your siblings will finish school soon.
Next time someone calls your man and says "Jane still misses you!" have him say something like "Jane is annoying the hell out of me. She needs to move on and stop acting so desperate." Hopefully that will get back to her and she can get a grip.
There's nothing really that you can do besides going and talking to her but she sounds pretty immature so I doubt that will work. Ignore her and just move on with your life. You got the man, you got the future and she has nothing. You win... now, its just sad. Pity her, dont be angry with her. If you're upset then she wins.
Good luck and let it go.
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1Get out of the small town you're living in! Otherwise you probably won't be able to forget her.
2Stop drinking the poison...tell your boyfriend how you're feeling and that girl's behavior. He can't be this aloof.
3What kind of college man dates a girl in junior high? That's illegal.
4luismapacha- A junior in high school not in junior high.
Its been so long since the relationship ended it is really pathetic that she is pulling all these stunts.
5Hopefully now you can just feel sorry for her- that what I told my friend to do about this girl that just always got under her skin. When she and her guy got engaged (and married by this point) I was like, look- you have the ring, he picked YOU, so instead of being angry with the way that girl acts when you see her, just pity her bc your guy is one less male that she can try to get attention from.
What grade is a junior?
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6A junior is 11th grade. The year before senior year. I hope you girls were joking not knowing what a junior in high school was.
7Well, I dont know about Luisa but I'm Canadian. We dont call them juniors or seniors or freshman. We call them Grade 10, 11 and 12 and sometimes 13. We only hear those other words during american movies and stuff.
Question, do you use different words for college years then you use in highschool? I always hear about the freshman 15... but thats a college thing, right?
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8The Freshman 15 is the 15 pounds that a freshman in college puts on because living on their own and eating all wrong. Usually girls get hounded for the Freshman 15.. it's like a.. thing college guys laugh at. They always say.. Freshman Girls.. Get Em While They're Skinny.
9Yea, no I get what it means but I'm asking if there is a different term for Freshman in highschool and freshman in college. Also, what counts as a freshman? Arent there normally about 4 years in college? Does Freshman only count for your 1st year and then you're a junior for every additional year until you graduate as a senior?
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10After your Freshman year you're a Sophomore(10) and then a Junior til you're inevitably a senior.
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