Okay, so I was with my ex-boyfriend (wow, it still hurts to say 'ex' out loud) for 5 1/2 years. We were planning on moving in together, and even talking about marriage. It felt like we were both starting to get freaked out and not sure what we wanted. I said I think we needed a break from each other, which I think we both knew was going to turn into a break-up. We were on the 'break' for 2 weeks when I decided I loved him and wanted to work things out - he opted for the break-up We have all the same friends, so have tried to maintain a friendship, but I am finding it very hard. Every time we talk he tells me he still loves me, but just needs more time. I am scared to get back together, and scared to move on??? Why does he tell me he wants to be with me, and that he loves me, but can't commit to getting back together!!?? All advice is welcomed!!!