I am 22 years old and have been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years. We became very close and were very happy the first two years. Then the "honey moon" stage was over. After that everything got complicated. I realize now that because I wanted it to work so bad that I pushed it. Everything had to be perfect; him, me, my job, school etc. I never just let us be us. And because of this NEED I didn't always feel he gave me what I wanted so I cheated on him. I wasn't excited about doing it I just wanted to see I guess if I was good enough. It was a one night thing. So just yesturday my bf broke up with me. I still want to be with him and wish he could understand. If I could do it again I would do it better!
What should i do?
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melissa
you have learned a lesson, and chalk it up to life exeperience. Now you know that just because it seems like the grass is greener on the other side, it is not worth it to lose what you have with someone just to chase the thrill. Next time you will be more loyal and not stray.
1Get over it. Spend some time being single, then move on with you life. And go get tested for STDs.
2Unfortunately this is one of the hardballs life throws us. It sometimes doesn't work out and sometimes it does. I would give him a little breathing room for a week or two and give him time to think. If he misses you he will come back. Let him know how you feel and leave it alone.
3Eish. Well honestly, it's hard to say without knowing your relationship. But based on my experience in these matters, I think you were deliberately trying to sabotage your relationship. Now that he's back in control, and broke up with you, you are like "oh I can't live with you! blah blah" you know, same old drama that makes people feel like they're in love again or whatever.
Chalk this up to a learning experience and get yourself together and move on. You are young and there is someone else out there for you.
Good luck.
4I'm sorry that things didn't work out, but usually if they don't work out, the wouldn't have worked out to start with. I agree with everyone to chalk it up as a life experience and take it with you into your next relationship.
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