so i basically just ended things with my boyfriend of two years. he wanted to take a break ( he felt he was losing himself) and although i felt hurt, i began to realize he had a good point and time alone with myself was the best thing (i jumped into this relationship right after another one, am about to graduate from college - while he already has, depend way too much on him for my emotional support/needs). but the more we talked about it, the more i realized i needed to completely end things and move on to work only on myself and not think of him. he didn't want to break up but i thought it was a better way for both of us to grow as individuals. how do you survive a breakup that completely friendly and only as a way to grow.? i still love him so much - and i do hope we get back together (even though i know i can't count on that happening). where do i go from here?
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Aw, poor thing! Breaking up is hard, especially if you two still love each other. It sounds like you guys are doing the right thing though.
Being friends out of the gates of a breakup is very difficult, in my opinion. It's too hard because you're always going to be looking for signs that the person still loves you, or if they've moved on etc.
I would do what you stated - take time to yourself, figure some things out, and in time the picture will be clearer.
Good luck!
1Well, you can't count on getting back together because life takes us on twist and turns. He might find someone else and you might find someone else. I had a month break from my boyfriend to get myself on track. It felt like the longest month ever and we didn't communicate at all. Well, it was more of a breakup but we just couldn't stand it after a month. I know he is the person I want to be with and if I have to develop myself more I'm going to do it with him by my side.
So it's your choice but it sounds like you really want to discover yourself. If you do choose to do it cut off all ties with the boyfriend.
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